Meeting Lupita Nyong’o, David Oyelowo, and Respecting Actors

Beverley in a brown and green dress with Lupita in a black and white dress.

I enjoy watching acting that creates such intense tension that I find myself pacing in and out of the room because it’s unbearable to sit still. If you watched the 2022 World Cup final between France and Argentina, you’ll know exactly what I mean.

I love seeing actors in plays, films, or series who can take a script and turn it into something so real you can feel it.

I first saw Lupita Nyong’o on the Kenyan series Shuga, and her brilliance captivated me. She portrayed the complexities of youth and relationships with such mastery. That performance impacted me deeply—I even cut my hair again, for the 20th time, because of Lupita. Watching her made me appreciate the growth of the Kenyan film industry and the incredible work that goes into good acting.

I’ve acted in school, church, and during consultative projects, and I know firsthand the effort that goes into scripting, stage management, lighting, casting, and all the behind-the-scenes work that makes a production seamless. Re-watching The Good Wife has only deepened my respect for those long hours of dedication.

Meeting Lupita and David Oyelowo on the set of Queen of Katwe in 2015 was an unforgettable moment. The story of Phiona Mutesi, a girl who played chess with Bill Gates and whom I’ve referenced in poems and speeches, was being brought to life. Phiona’s journey, from despair to triumph, is a reminder that adversity is not the end of the story—it’s often the beginning of something great.

Beverley with David Oyelowo.

David Oyelowo, with his impressive body of work, shared with us his passion for storytelling and the importance of portraying meaningful life stories. That resonates with me as I imagine myself in those roles—embodying characters with grace, speed, and perfection.

One day, I’ll walk through the streets of New York or Beverly Hills, bump into an actor I admire, and there will be no rehearsed lines—just gushing, hugs, selfies, and unforgettable memories.

Respect actors. Respect writers. Respect art. And when you meet these creators, tell them how much their work means to you.

Blessings,
Bev